Instead of writing a monthly What I Learned post, I’ve decided to write one every three months. It just seems more doable during this season of my life.
The first three months of 2018 have taught me about being brave and being true to myself!
Here’s what I learned between January and March…
All I Need Is My Camera
The photo shoots I enjoy most are the ones where I’m out and about with my camera capturing memories for families. I don’t need all the crazy setups. Honestly, that part stresses me out! Just give me my camera and a gorgeous day and I’m happy!
I’m Couragous
There, I said it! I took the leap of faith and we are doing this homeschool thing (the thing I said I’d NEVER do) and even though it scares the snot out of me at times, it makes me brave!
It Costs $100 to Get A Lego Out of A Kid’s Nose
You can read all about the Lego fiasco of 2018 here.
I HAVE to Write
It’s my offering. My ministry. My therapy!
I had several people ask if I was going to blog about our homeschool journey. The night I sat down to write about our decision to homeschool, it became clear that I would indeed blog about this new season.
Writing that post helped me process our decision. I felt a weight lift off my shoulders with each word that appeared on the screen. I also received a lot of positive feedback from other mamas in similar situations as ours.
So, yes! I must write!
School CAN Look Different
Whether it’s taking a trip to the Transportation Museum or writing sight words on the foggy car window, I’m learning that school can look different.
It doesn’t have to happen sitting down or at a desk. It can happen in the car counting and adding mustangs and jeeps. It happens when he spells words out loud from the back seat. Handwriting practice can come in the form of making out Easter cards.
Learning can happen in a thousand ways! Homeschool is about flexibility and making learning fun!
I’m still learning how to let go of my Type A ways and embrace this new freedom we have!
Learning MUST Happen in the Morning
If we don’t do school in the morning, his ADHD gets out of control and you get this!
Let’s just say I got a lesson in patience that day!
My Kid Is Hilarious, Smart and Creative
He can tell you every type of car as you pass them on the highway!
Chevy, Ford, Kia, Honda, Toyota, Range Rover – and the list goes on and on.
Mom, that’s a Corvette. Corvette has horse power!
He makes me laugh like crazy.
The things he says kill me!
I love, love, love him!
36 Feels Good
Not only do I feel good in my own skin, I HAVE great skin!
THIS is what 36 looks like!
A glowing complexion! The best lashes of my life! Even skin tone. Very few fine lines or wrinkles. Bright eyes. Small pores.
Many makeup free days!
I spent most of my life going to bed with my makeup on and washing my face with Noxema. I spent TONS of money on expensive makeup trying to get a flawless look! The best gift I ever gave myself was investing in my skin!
Because of Rodan + Fields I look 26 instead of 36!
My Weight Does Not Define Me
My Story Matters
I read Girl, Wash Your Face. by Rachel Hollis.
She writes: It’s why I’ll stay hopeful even when I’m feeling weary. It’s why I’ll keep telling our story even when it’s painful to talk about. Because at the end of all this, I don’t want you to see someone who went through a long, intense process to adopt a little girl. I want you to see someone who kept showing up again and again, even when it was tearing her apart. I want you to see someone who kept walking in faith because she understood that God’s plan for her life was magnificent – even if it was never easy. And even if it wasn’t easy, she was bold and courageous and honest even when the truth was hard to share.
Yes, yes, yes!
Every word of this.
Our special needs journey.
It’s hard.
I’ll tell the truth.
I’ll be bold.
My life is magnificent, but it’s far from easy.
I’ll cry.
I’ll take a picture of my tears.
I’ll post it.
I will not hide the hard stuff!
I will be courageous!